By now, most high schools and universities have held their commencement ceremonies. Thousands of hopefuls have walked across a stage, received a padded cardboard diploma case from someone they’ve never spoken to in their life and been declared ready to take on the world.
To help them with this Grand Canyon step, speakers are invited to give inspirational talks to the graduates in hopes that they will keep walking when they reach the other side of the stage, somehow get a job and start sending money immediately to benefit the alumni cash register.
As in all things, though, some of the speeches are better than others.
Columnist David Brooks told graduates that they will not find their passion. It will find them. For many of the teens I know, that passion includes racking up hours of “Call of Duty: Black Ops II” from the living room couch while consuming mountains of Doritos dipped in Cheez Whiz.
Dick Costelo, CEO with Twitter, told students they won’t recognize the impact they’re having in life until they’re having it. That’s sort of like realizing you’ve backed your car into a tree when you hear the thud.
Katie Couric knows how to inspire an audience. She told the graduates at Randolph Macon College in Virginia that everybody’s terminal. Exactly what 18-year-olds who can finally buy beer legally want to hear.
Rep. John Lewis from Georgia probably gave a speech that got the most applause – he told the Class of 2013 to go out and find a way to get in trouble. Good trouble, he cautioned, but I don’t know a teenager who would’ve listened for the caveat after hearing they had the green light to dabble in shenanigans.
Activist Bill McKibben told graduates in Florida not to let their minds go back to sleep. As if any of them been chomping at the bit in their morning classes. Ever try staying awake in a statistics or Elizabethan poetry class? I rest my case.
Newark Mayor Cory Booker told students to listen to the still voice in their heads. I don’t know about the graduates at Yale, but the little voice inside my head when I was 18 told me to go back to bed, listen to my “Rubber Soul” album for the 98th time and keep believing the Beatles would, one day, reunite.
Oprah told Harvard graduates that failure is “life trying to move us into another direction.” That direction, for some, might be the serving frappuccino at the local coffee house if they decided to major in the offbeat. Case in point, a course my Aggie son actually took and I paid for: “The Language of Love.”
Seriously. I paid for that.
Astrophysicist Neil deGrasse Tyson told Rice graduates that they still have a lot to learn. Most 18-year-olds believe they already know everything. Asking them to admit they have a lot yet to learn is like asking my dog to sing “99 Bottles of Beer on the Wall.”
Television writer Jon Lovett told the graduates at Pitzer College that it’s time to move on. They annoyed their parents for years and their professors for the past four. Now it’s time to go out into the world and annoy someone else. Unfortunately, many of them will repeat the cycle, move back home and resume annoying their parents.
Rob Lazebnik, a writer on “The Simpsons” penned a great tongue-in-cheek articles advising graduates to do what they do best – get lucky.
So roll the dice, Class of 2013 and hope Lady Luck is on your side.
This column was originally published in The Fort Bend Herald.